These words are not just advice or just a feeling, these are words that are heart beat of anyone who has lost some one very close to him/her. I would say that you are a brave person as in time of recovery you were patient and realized so many things,learned and shared experience in a more creative way.
May you and your family get blessing from Allah subhanatallah , Please keep sharing your words of wisdom and patience so that we may learn from them.
This should be taught in SCHOOL for at least FIVE years. Social training is missing in our community and your kind of person who has written a revolution.
One thing I would like to point out, some time due to AGE or factors like social back ground people do stupid things on funerals, both parties should be patient.
